This is a guest post from my buddy Robert Domingo who is preparing to embark on a ‘Round the World trip and who blogs at Mid-Life Round-the-World. I asked Robert to tell his story because, though he may have reached “middle age”, he’s proof that you can still take on big, life-altering changes, set out to travel, and follow the path you want to… No matter what your age is. Take it away, Robert.
“It is easy to buy things. It’s hard to sell things. And it’s even harder to sell things at a profit.”
– Jean Chatzky, Money Rules: The Simple Path to Lifelong Security
“The things you own end up owning you. It’s only after you lose everything that you’re free to do anything.”
– Chuck Palahniuk, Fight Club
I couldn’t believe this ponytailed, glasses-wearing nerd was trying to take advantage of me.
It was two days before I was scheduled to move out of my apartment. I had been trying to sell my organic mattress for over a month.
I paid $3,395 less than three years ago. With the bed frame, pillows, sheets, topper, and mattress pad, the total cost was $5,835.
Stupidest purchase I ever made.
My asking price for the mattress on Craigslist had dropped from $2,000 to $500.
Finally I got a text from someone who couldn’t pay $500, but could pay $200. I took it. Better than nothing.
She said her boyfriend would pick it up. Later that night I showed him the mattress.
Then he said something that made my squint my eyes and think “You gotta be effin kidding me!”
You want to live out of your truck and trade your 9-to-5 for climbing 5.9s.
Or you want to live out of your backpack and trade your cubicle for a round-the-world trip.
Either way, things are the enemy.
Every thing is something you have to try to sell on Craigslist, list on eBay, donate to Goodwill, recycle, throw away, give away, put into storage, ship across the country, or cram into your checked baggage.
Every thing weighs you down and takes up space in your pack, your trunk, and the back of your mind.
Start to take an inventory of your things.
Imagine you’re getting on a plane to Medellin in three days.
How would you deal with each thing?
Is it essential to your adventure?
If it’s not essential, sell it, or otherwise get rid of it.
On the other side of your stuff is the freedom you’ve been looking for.
“I know my girlfriend said $200, but I just brought $100. If that doesn’t work for you, we can talk about it.”
The thought of rewarding this kind of slippery behavior made me sick.
I told him, “There’s nothing to talk about” and kicked his ass out of my apartment.
The next day I paid $137 to watch my beautiful organic mattress get dragged down the sidewalk by the guys from 1-800-GOT-JUNK.
I dropped off my keys at my landlord’s office and got on a cross-country flight with my things packed in a box, suitcase, backpack and jacket.
My mattress was a massive loss. However, getting rid of the mattress — my biggest thing — brought me one massive step closer to my round-the-world trip.
What is your “mattress,” and how will you get rid of it?
- Minimalism by Mark Manson – A great read. You really don’t need all that you think you do.
- Downsizing and Minimalism for Long-Term Travel – My own story of selling and getting rid of things.
- Stop Buying Things and Start Doing Things – How I’d rather be spending my hard-earned money…
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